Most of my friends, for a very long time, have known me as a "one woman show". Oh, yes, there have been significant others over the years, but, in fact I have been widowed for thirty years. I assumed it would be that I would never have another partner since the last one was led to the door about five years ago.
But, now I have decided "no more" and am focused on finding someone to share my life with - a good sign, I think. After my daughter died I couldn't hardly leave the house for two years but bit by bit, I have returned to life. I now can see a future.
So, the secret is out. I've informed the kids in the USA, I've joined E-Harmony. I was concerned about what their reactions would be but they were THRILLED! I have NEVER done anything like this in my life. It was never a problem meeting men in the USA but in San Miguel, well, let's just say the ten women to each man, leaves me unwilling to be as aggresive as necessary here. (I could REALLY tell you some stories about the aggressive women here)! Whew.
And, thanks go out to some of you bloggers who have wonderful relationships. I read about them and yearn to have the same. In my humble opinion, I have a lot to offer. SO wish me luck and happiness and.........keep your fingers crossed.
I'll let you know what happens.........